Promise me

Last night was no different than every Tuesday. Finished with my late night classes, I walked back to my apartment which is a 12 minute walk from the train station. Weather had not been good all day. Snow in the afternoon turned into freezing rain in night while I was walking back to my apartment. Hopping around the puddles I managed to reach my apartment. I finished eating my dinner and got in my bedroom where I had a whole load of laundry to be folded. It had been a while that I video chatted with my parents in India. I hadn't been in greatest of moods since 3-4 days. After talking with my dad, it was my mom's turn to be on the video call. A sense of happiness always resides on her face whenever she sees me. This time it was no different. Our conversation took a different turn the moment we talked about protecting one's wife. There was a sense of concern that she wanted to share with me (which she did). Being a mother, she would always want her son to take her side or be with her. But,  how long? That's the question. She uttered by far the best piece of advice to me on maintaining or should I say balancing relationships. 

"Son, whatever it takes, do not ever let, your wife's inability to do something, out in front of anyone; not even her. And, do whatever it takes to be on her side. You'll have to balance between her and me. And, I will make sure you would not have a moment like that anytime in your life. Promise me."

"I promise."

Yearn

The warmth of your hug is what i yearn for,
You like me and i like you, whatever it's either or,
I don't know what it is,
Whatever it is,
My day was complete,
While my life was still incomplete,
You brought a smile,
Which was as long as a mile,
I slept for minutes nine,
Your virtual presence in the dream made up the time,
There's something in the air though miles apart,
Only death shall keep us apart.

What are You Upto??

Imagine yourself in a busy metro train. considering this route as your daily route of your daily routine, you are bound to encounter/cross by hundreds of people. Of these, some are neatly dressed professionals, some are students, children in strollers (literally), while some are tourists. Sitting on one of these seats, just imagine yourself without your smartphone/tablet/phablet/newspaper or your headphones plugged in a mp3 player. What do you see?
1.) A fashionista opening her cosmetic shop, overdosing her face with talc, blush, mascara, eye shadow, paints her nail, and what not to make it a coloring extravaganza.
2.) A photo-sensitive exhibitionist jerk who is self publicising hi D&G or Versace or Gucci sunglasses in a train who think its cool to wear them. Yeah! It is. But, hello! In a train? How much glare does the light in a train throw on your eyes that you've to wear those swanky glasses to protect your eyes from getting early macular degeneration?
3.) An overly obsessed smartphone user who is constantly tapping his/her phone's keypad trying to send a text in a no-network zone. My question to you: Are you from outer space?
4.) A power napper who tries to get that 15-20 mins of sleep that couldn't get last night whilst he was finishing a stage of a match-3 puzzle game.
5.) I accept that man is a social animal, but, what would you call a person who keeps on refreshing a facebook page which apparently doesn't obey his commands because it's not connected to internet, thanks to the no-network zone in underground metro?
6.)  A group-therapy session organized by some virtual identity. And what are the people doing? They are playing that stupid match 3 puzzle game. HELP THEM!! These people are life-less (pun intended). I urge the readers to be nice to them. Provide them life or else they'll praise cusswords on to you if you're in their FB's friend list. Get A Life Puzzlers!!


SO, WHAT ARE YOU UPTO?!!

English: Then and now..

ENGLISH WAS A FUNNY LANGUAGE: now it is funnier and crazier

With love becoming luv,
Tough becoming tuf,
Girls like them being called gurls,
B'coz, guys are luking haute!!
Words are getting shortened in such a manner that one day will come when we have to assume there are vowels in a word!! Jst lk ths! Snt t mzng. Hw cn v ndrstnd whn thr r n vwls n wrds! But, still we all find it amazing and artistic!
Thankfully we are still writing good as gud and just not gd as then a misinterpretation to a hot sexy girl we'd say, she looks gd (god or good) looking!! Well this changes the whole meaning of the emotions! ;)

Faith & hard work

Faith & Hardwork

What is  faith?
 A trust or confidence in someone, something or above all the Almighty.
When do we have faith?
When we know that we've worked hard enough to gain the confidence in someone. When we say, "I've faith in god.", we mean we've worked hard enough by stretching to our limits.
How do we know we've stretched to our limits?
Shear dedication and hard work when you think you are going in to paranoid-state-of-mind.
What if we lose faith?
There is no point when we lose faith in someone. There's only one answer: you haven't worked hard to gain the confidence. Proverbs aren't there for fun. They mean what they say. "God helps those who help themselves." The self help is the most important aspect which works to gain faith. If faith doesn't work then follow these easy steps and you'll get the answer.
1.) stay calm, diffuse all the thoughts.
2.) stand in front of a mirror with no one beside you.
3.) Look in to yourself and ask out a series of questions to self, "was the hard work enough?", "was there a room for improvement?", "what I did was right?".
4.) Search for the answers in your mind. Listen to what you get back. The answers will pave the way for improvement if needed. If you get affirmative answers, you have done what it takes. Rest assured depends on the faith on god or the someone..

• Failure without hard work will not lead you to success.
• Failure with hard work will always lead to success. Thats when your faith in God comes in place.
• If you havent worked hard then no need to feel sorry for failures.
• Thomas Alva Edison once said, "I haven't failed. I have invented 10,000 ways that won't work."
• Take a step and don't think of backing out; because "Backing out was and never should be an option."

fariyaad.

Fariyaad...

Fariyaad kare che e balpan jema koi rok tok nohti,Fariyaad kare che ma no kholo jema mathu muki sui jata,Fariyaad kare che pita no khabho jena par besi sheher na darshan karta,Ek fariyaad che k aa fariyaad che k fari aavti e yaad che..

Fariyaad kare che pehli vaar ni vaat,E prem hato, prem ni pehli mulaakat,Fariyaad kare che e laal gulaab,Ke prem ni nishaani chu k kaanta ni jaal,Fariyaad kare che e dil je dhadaktu hatu premi ni yaad ma,Fariyaad kare che e honth e muskaan ne je avaar navaar avya karti ti,Khatri karvi che ek matr k aa fariyaad che k pachi fari aavti e yaad che..

Fariyaad kare che e suki jamin je bhinai jati varsaad na teepa thi,Fariyaad kare che ej jamin ni suki mati je bhinai ne sugandh felavti,Fariyaad kare che e nadi jema tara kesh ni jem moja uchalta,Fariyaad kare che e vishal dariyo je khili uthto tari hasi sabhdi ne,Bas ek prashn che jeno uttar melavva aavyo chu,K aa fariyaad che k fari aavti e yaad che.

Fariyaad kare che aa nayan jene tane pehli j jhalak ma j  kaid kari lidhi,Fariyaad kare che e hriday,Je kaid che tari vaani ni mayajaal ma,Ek anokhu smit felay che jyare taro chehro jou chu,Ane saathe ek sawaal ubho thai che,K aa fariyaad che k pachi fari aavti e ghadpan ma tari yaad che..

ek kavita

Kavita ni sandarbh ane vyakhya che tu,

Ane e kavita na prem ma vileen thayela kavi ni kalpana che tu,

Pehla varsaad thi bhinjva aatur e mati ni i66a che tu,

Ane te j varsaad na kala vadla ne joi kalrav karta mor no naach che tu,

Ek premi na dil ni vaat che tu,

Na kahi shakyo e vaat eva dil ni vyatha che tu,

Vaajintra mathi nikleli sargam no sur che tu,

Ek gayak na gala mathi nikdelu prem nu geet che tu,

Shravan maas ma aavta shravani poonam no Chandra che tu,

Poonam na diwase paani ma padelu taj majal nu pratibeemb che tu,

Premika ni yaad ma na vitati premi ni raat che tu,

Te j premi ni diwas ane raat che tu,

Ek kavi e eni premika mate lakheli kavita che tu,

Ane e kavita na prem ma vileen thai gayela kavi ni kalpana che tu.